Many Families Are Requesting COVID Deaths Not Mentioned in Obituaries
Is this the new 'stigma'? Back in the 1980's many families would keep AIDS, as the cause of death, off a family member's obituary. It may have been fear, it may have been shame, regardless it seems to be happening again and now it is COVID-19.
One young woman from rural Pennsylvania recently buried her younger brother, who lost his life to COVID. Stephanie Rimel said in a recent interview, that even at her brother's funeral insensitive and ignorant comments were made.
Kyle Dixon was 27 years old when he died from the ravages of COVID. Dixon worked as a prison guard, and according to his sister, he believed his friends and co-workers when they said that COVID-19 was a Democratic hoax. As the young man lay dying in the hospital, and then at his funeral, family and friends continued to brag about not wearing masks, still calling the virus a hoax. Dixon's sister said the backlash for mentioning COVID in the obituary was hurtful, heartless, and embarrassing.
The COVID-19 virus has become so polarizing and political. Far too many of us have had relatives - loved ones die an agonizing death hooked up to a ventilator after the COVID virus ravaged their lungs. But to have someone at that family member's funeral brag that they never wear a mask, ummmm, yeah.
Don't get me wrong, think what you want. This is the United States of America and everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs, however, there is a time and a place. A funeral is not the place and a family has every right to phrase an obituary the way they and family members choose.
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